SILENCE IS NOT GOLDEN

I never really understood the power of a man when he is fixated on his own issues and his own goals until now but I must say the feeling is great, since making you tube video's I have been able to really understand the importance of identifying male issue's by doing so in an environment where men are not distracted by the hidden agenda of others who are not as concerned.

The sad truth is many people seem to think that this is for entertainment but people like myself know this is not the case.

The amount of private emails I get from individuals on some things scare me at times not because they are contacting me specifically but because it really shows you how helpless some men feel and I think that this is because many men don't know the importance of addressing mens issues until it is too late.

It only really becomes a serious issue for many men when they have been mistreated and felt the harsh reality of gender politics and got the short end of the stick in some form of dispute with a female when third parties like the law or the work place are involved. Ironically its these very same men who are truly passionate after the fact but in some cases address matters from an emotional perspective which sometimes can compromise their thought process.

I actually find this whole subject extremely interesting and have such a passion for it now its second nature for me to be an MRA and I feel if much more men did this we would have a much better understanding of ourselves and so would the women that we complain about. You see when you actually listen to what women say about men I'm sure you have heard some ridiculous conclusions that they have come up with to explain our attitudes from their perspective but they are simply functioning on guess work. However for this kind of thinking I don't blame women because they are simply coming up with the best idea they can conjure up and what else are they supposed to do when MEN don't SPEAK UP ON THEIR ISSUES?

Of course women are going to make up their own theories and the less men that challenge them on these views the more these women will become entrenched in believing that they are right about everything they think about men and other deluded opinions and the few men that do speak out (like me) are wrong as far as they are concerned.

This is the problem with men being silent, not showing their feelings, views, and opinions. We do this everyday, that time when you heard your aunt saying "all men are cheaters" and you just sat there and didn't break down her argument, or that time that you heard your girlfriends best friend say "men are scared of commitment" and you was standing right there and refused to open your mouth with some facts because you thought your girlfriend and her would gang up on you, that time you heard some baby mother talking loudly to strangers about her baby father and you just sat and laughed with her and co-signed her.

ALL OF THAT IS WHY WOMEN THINK HOW THEY DO AND THEY DON'T THINK THEY ARE WRONG

They are not being challenged and the consequence of this has got so severe that we now have what we call a gender war between the sexes and now both sexes use mostly generalizations to describe each other and their conduct. This is the result of being silent guys and its hurting us and its hurting women and it is CRIPPLING our children.

This is the equivalent of a woman leading a man on saying that he is such a nice guy but not actually telling him that she does not find him attractive and his breath stinks. He will continue on thinking everything is cool but when he makes a move and she rejects him he will be crushed but that's because he had no clue about how she really felt. This is what is happening to women.

All you men that didn't tell your little sisters to stop dressing like hookers on facebook, all you men that only wanted to fuck the girl but told her she is your girlfriend, all you men that gas up chicks about dressing like sluts just so you could get your dick wet........ all of this has lead to the females delusion of facts when it comes to men. But that's on a very basic level........

Men should ALWAYS be speaking his mind so women know how we feel, misleading women for the sake of sparing her feelings or getting your own dick wet or not telling your sister that she was acting like a SKANK at last weeks house party only makes women as intolerable and as poorly comprehensively retarded as they are today on men and their issues.

Women didn't start dressing like hookers showing tits just off the top of their head lads, some bright pussy begging moron made her think this is classy and we still do this today.

Women also only think and believe the harsh generalizations of men today because we allowed them to without pulling them up.

How many times have you pinched a girls bum? and how many times have certain women told you to fuck off for doing it enough for you to know that you shouldn't do that unless you KNOW her?

EXACTLY

speak your mind lads

speak your mind

the silence is only gonna fuck us up later.

One last thing, don't be discouraged by a female response to such an attitude because she is likely having a serious issue of being knocked off the throne of her delusional "you go girl" kingdom where she is the queen of her own fuck ups.

Don't waste your time force feeding her just tell her when need be and ALWAYS respond with the adequate response if you hear misandry from women.

If you think this is wrong think about this, when a man makes sweeping statements about women just look how women mobilize together and take you out swiftly, they do this because they have had time to trade ideas on their own beliefs which is why they can gang up on most men and make him look very stupid.

change this guys

MALE INTUITION

Now the other day I got a wake up call about men defining their own manhood

I was on my friend’s facebook page and his status read

“Watching Wrestling with my son and he just asked me why women are wrestling and not standing outside the ring watching their men wrestle in the ring. All I could do was smile and tell him how proud I am of him.”

Now this is what I call top class clear thinking in young black youth because despite all the misandry, despite all of the women trying to mould their sons into weak women worshipping men who are scared to speak their mind on their own issues, despite all the other men that think pussy begging and kissing the arse of women is a must to get laid and despite the fact that we can hardly ever speak our mind without some woman poking her nose into big mans business this 6 year old boy still had the mind to say what he does not like in women and didn’t care about the response because he was around men that don’t stifle the notion of free thinking.

This kind of clear thinking in young men should be encouraged and rewarded because its a clear indication that when a man is free to think for himself in a healthy environment consistent with other clear thinking men he can dismiss the bullshit that women, manginas, thugblamers, feminists, and other man hating factions around us try to inject in our minds on a daily basis.

I then immediately phoned up my friend and told him to put his son on the phone and I told him that I’m gonna take him to west end next week and buy him any game he wants for his Nintendo Wii and on the way there I am going to explain exactly why I am doing this for him.

You see this boy has proven himself to be even more manly than most males who are 3 times his age and this kind of thinking in the youth is precious. What was funny was the other responses my friend got on facebook from women about this, many said the response was sexist and that it indicates woman hating and the other usual responses women give when their back is against the wall avoiding the finger of a man that knows what he is talking about.

Women don’t like being told about themselves especially when they have no response that can challenge what has been said with well rounded argument that doesn’t make them look any worse than they already do.

The usual response from a woman would be that if a man can do it so can she and you know what?

I don’t care what women do so she is right she can do whatever a man wants if you wanna go fuck up your life that’s your business but we don’t have to like it and we don’t have to stay silent about it either just so you feel comfortable with your conduct. Too many women think that because they couldn’t wouldn’t or wasn’t able to do it in the past they should be able to do it now but I wonder why I have never seen a woman change a tyre on her car without calling for road side assistance then?

Anyway

I’m quite sure women would take words of support from men with open arms, well you cant have it both ways because not all men kiss arse.

My friends son was right he doesn’t find it lady like for women to be in the ring making complete fools of themselves fighting and degrading what little respect we have of them already for other foolish female fuckry. He simple does not like it and I agree with him.

Even when I see people discussing relationships between each other there is sure to be some over the hill skank that has fucked more men that the average looking man has fucked women telling us that she shouldn’t be judged because men do it all the time.

We can judge who the hell we want tramp

We can also take great pride in rejecting your ass too and tease you about it in person and in rap songs and righteously exile you from our circle of people we respect just like you do to deadbeat dads.

Anyway a woman that feels she needs to compete her number of sexual partners and her various sexual acts in her life against the number of a mans sexual partners and his acts is simply a skank hoe and should be treated as that.

No man should feel guilty about bustin a nut, putting on his clothes and then leaving the hoe in bed after sex while he goes about his business.

WE DONT OWE HOES SHIT.

Now that felt good

You see men have been yearning to get their point across and put it out to the mainstream on these issues for years but you aint gonna hear this kind of opinion on TV or any other form of powerful media unless you listen to underground rap where you can say what the hell you want.

All your gonna hear on mainstream media is woman worshipping hogwash with the purpose of widening the audience of female viewers who indeed spend more money than men and pay more attention to advertisements which promote the bullshit they buy.

Also men don’t let no woman try and mind fuck you by telling you that you don’t respect yourself because you fucked a hoe (which really means fucking a woman like the one preaching and leaving her on her worthless arse)

These are the stupid paraphrases women use to try and even the playing field in debates because it’s their way of trying to get you to prove yourself to them. They cant convince you that they aint fucked double digits of men in one month because it so easy for us to know this in today’s world so now they are trying to get you to prove yourself to them.

Don’t even entertain it the minute a woman starts querying your sexual past take the matter even further out of her comfort zone and tell her if she cant come to the clinic with you in confidence of knowing she aint got no disease that will kill you tell her to shut the fuck up.

You see a great deal of women have all the talk when it comes to men and their sexual conduct so much so that we have women that think men cheat more than women even though there is no significant data that can prove this and it’s bullshit anyway because cheating isn’t a male act its something females do too and for the exact same reason which is to satisfy lust there is no way of saying who does it more but the common belief is that men do it more.

But let me ask you, if you believe this where did you get this idea from? How do you know this?

All of this is why I tend to silence and or ignore all women that try and communicate with me on men’s issue’s unless they are

· Offering a solution to our problems

· Offering support

· Offering a female perspective which doesn’t mean her advertising herself or her mother as the exception to the rule with a well rounded opinion stating all of the facts

If you’re a woman and you aint doing that I don’t need to hear shit from you and you should stick to being a spectator until you have grasped what Heavenlytruth1 is about.

When men get together and start thinking objectively a lot of solutions can be made about our issues and we can then exchange ideas and come to an understanding of how to deal with it but when you add a group of females to the discussion about men’s issue’s all the men end up spending half of the conversation backtracking and retracting statements so that we can acknowledge that the women in the same room as us are soooooo different from the women we are speaking about.

*rolls eyes*

Anyway in the mean time its important that all men discuss our issues in a civilised manor and don’t allow yourself to get sidetracked by female’s who want to just debate for the sake of debating.

LET ME TELL YOU ALL ABOUT ME

I love being a black man and when I look around me and then look at YOU I love myself even more. But then when I look at YOU again and all the women that YOU whine at and realise how much these women don’t like YOU I get even more arrogant and love myself even more again, BUT then when I see how much effort YOU have put in to being what YOU think women want and they still don’t pick you I feel sorry for YOU for being misled lead by what you THINK women want because you didn’t allow yourself to love YOU for YOU rather than for what YOU think a woman wants but I find it funny at the same time and then I love myself more AGAIN.

When I finally realised all of this I then realised why so many women cant help but to love ME because unlike YOU I don’t beg, plead, whine and insult women because they didn’t pick ME because they always do.

Quite clearly for some reason your education hasn't allowed YOU to love YOU for just being YOU but I knew all of this way before any studying and that adds to why I am A BLACK MAN THAT LOVES BEING BLACK MAN.

So now you know about ME let me ask you,

WHO ARE YOU?

THUGBLAMING EXPLAINED

OKAY

I'm gonna explain this as best i can without maybe coming across insulting as other people have when they speak about thugblaming and pussybegging

Thugblamers are people that blame thugs at pretty much every turn but one of the key ways they do this is the way they speak with women. For example a woman could be in a certain situation like being single with kids but the reason she is in that situation is because she got pregnant during a time when she was not married or at the very least living with her partner in a stable relationship basically meaning she was NOT READY FOR CHILDREN, many women today get pregnant in very casual sex hook up arrangements (booty calls /linkage) which is why many women probably don’t know who the real fathers are cos the do this with more than one man usually (but they wont tell you that women these days still wanna lie and say they only got 3 boyfriends but STD rates tell you that this is bullshit)

Now considering this and the fact that relationships break down for all manor of reasons right there is one reason why we have single parents all over the place, but why do women do this?

Well women get a lot of support when they bare children so now they don’t see this as a real consequence and the fact that so many other women do it or in their own words "white women do it too" they no longer fear being single parents its almost like its collateral damage cos they still land on their feet with things like welfare, child benefits, housing etc. The money they get is not a lot but it’s enough to make them not care as much as they should which is why women have such a casual attitude to parenting in comparison to the attitude they should have.

NOW

Ill also point out that women ALWAYS tell us her side of the story when a relationship breaks down and they will usually do it by pointing out all the mans faults and tell you that she had to get rid of him. This is the first way I smell bullshit from women because many women get dumped by men but how often do women tell you that they have been dumped? THEY DONT but we don’t question them because we are used to believing her and never think of this but believe me many times a man has to get rid of certain women as I’m sure you know, your probably reading this now thinking of some woman who was keeping up fuckry who you had to get rid of.

Now when you consider all of that if a next man (third party) who is only hearing HER side of the story then continues to blame the man she was with for her situation by saying she got with the wrong man (who thugblamers will now say is a THUG) we then give her an avenue to not hold herself accountable for her OWN irresponsibility and that does not mean the responsibility to choose the right man because now she is like "well its the mans fault then because he was a thug it dont matter im a pregnant girl at 17 and didn't use protection and was not ready its all the thugs fault". The responsibility to not have kids out of wedlock or not in a stable relationship is lost with many people today and this is why women don’t hold themselves accountable because we blame other men when they tell us their story.

An interesting point i will add is that many men that are called thugs are NOT thugs in fact many normal working men with jobs are being slated by their children’s mother but that is because she is tasting sour grapes because he don’t want to be with her no more for whatever reason that may be, she then gives him hell and tells the whole world he aint shit and we believe it with no questions asked.

Some women take their children away from their fathers (as I can tell you from experience of friends I’m close to) and it wasn’t because they were thugs it was because she didn’t get her own way and these men were not thugs but because we give a man the "bad" thug title its easy to just simply believe the woman and think what she done is necessary making her the victim.

I’m passionate about this because even I have been deemed as a thug by some people and I don’t wear saggy jeans or anything like that (and saggy jeans dont mean someone is a thug it just means someone is stupid and cant wear their clothes properly and follows trends)

If you have been racially profiled by the police because you are black you will understand this because we have that over here in the U.K "stop and search" they have increased stop and search within the black community because they believe we commit most of the crime which is again another result of thug blaming as they believe all black men are like this (they dont differenciate between good black men and thugs they see black men and that’s it)

The impact of thugblaming has caused many men to want to distinguish themselves from thugs which is fine no one is saying you should be friends with them or anything like that BUT what is happening is the same men "good black men" as they call themselves are not realising that these women are capable of being trifling and still cant understand that even when THEY get with some of these women these women are keeping up fuckry (fuckry that even the thug suffers from) and then that’s when some men understand but by then its too late.

A woman just simply needs to get pregnant and she will get the support she needs from the government meaning the type of man she chooses dont even matter she just needs a dick and that’s it.

NOW

Some men thugblame for various reasons a pussy beggar MAY thugblame but his reasons are mixed as he just wants pussy BUT a man who aint a pussy beggar can still thug blame and Ill say outright a thugblamer isn’t always a pussy beggar but he IS a a thugblamer and that has a ripple effect on all black men all it takes is for an un clued up racist to get the wrong part of a conversation or see two boys with new era hats on the bus and we suffer his misjudgement, whether its a man that don’t give us a job because he thinks we are a thug or a man that don’t want to give your car a jump start because you apparently look like a thug the point is black men suffer because of thug blaming.

men that call themselves "good black men" should simply stop doing it and just BE good men there is no sense in saying with your own words that you are one because it just seems suspect its as suspect as a man that says he a thug cos they are usually lying and independent black women (who are usually exaggerating or lying) there are single mothers who call themselves independent lol

I dont call myself a good black man because I don’t wanna act like I’m better than anyone else ill let my friends be the judge of what type of man i am but ultimately I try to be noble but I do that for my own reasons not because women say they want me to be that way. I NEVER follow what women say they want a woman could come here and tell you she don’t like a particular man (just to get the approval of YOU) but later on that night she is fucking the same man but she wont tell you that. I’ve had women talk shit about ME to people and later on I hit them draws so go figure. This is where the "good black man" goes wrong because he is following a female preference which the woman herself does not even follow. Women tell you what they want to you believe and not what they actually respond to when it comes to men. A girl you just met off myspace can tell you she wants you to take her to a restaurant and then drop her home when really she wanted you to grab her hair lift up her legs and completely smash her vagina walls in the back of your Ford Focus but she cant exactly say that to you out right can she? lol

I hope I have explained this well enough for you to understand you may or may not agree but I don’t endorse thugblaming and I cant allow my platform to be corrupted by men that refuse to see this as it just makes my voice pointless if men around me don’t get this. I have a son and he WILL suffer the same way due to this thugblaming nonsense all it takes is for him to wear air force 1 sneakers and a cap and its game over.

So to conclude all of this a thugblamer is not necessarily always a pussy beggar but he is still harmful to the image of black men.

Also saggy jeans is one of the most stupidest trends i have seen in my whole life but again its a diversion by all means attack it just like I attack women with fucked up feet who wear sandals but don’t assume they are all thugs they are likely to be WANNA BE THUGS