THUGBLAMING EXPLAINED

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I'm gonna explain this as best i can without maybe coming across insulting as other people have when they speak about thugblaming and pussybegging

Thugblamers are people that blame thugs at pretty much every turn but one of the key ways they do this is the way they speak with women. For example a woman could be in a certain situation like being single with kids but the reason she is in that situation is because she got pregnant during a time when she was not married or at the very least living with her partner in a stable relationship basically meaning she was NOT READY FOR CHILDREN, many women today get pregnant in very casual sex hook up arrangements (booty calls /linkage) which is why many women probably don’t know who the real fathers are cos the do this with more than one man usually (but they wont tell you that women these days still wanna lie and say they only got 3 boyfriends but STD rates tell you that this is bullshit)

Now considering this and the fact that relationships break down for all manor of reasons right there is one reason why we have single parents all over the place, but why do women do this?

Well women get a lot of support when they bare children so now they don’t see this as a real consequence and the fact that so many other women do it or in their own words "white women do it too" they no longer fear being single parents its almost like its collateral damage cos they still land on their feet with things like welfare, child benefits, housing etc. The money they get is not a lot but it’s enough to make them not care as much as they should which is why women have such a casual attitude to parenting in comparison to the attitude they should have.

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Ill also point out that women ALWAYS tell us her side of the story when a relationship breaks down and they will usually do it by pointing out all the mans faults and tell you that she had to get rid of him. This is the first way I smell bullshit from women because many women get dumped by men but how often do women tell you that they have been dumped? THEY DONT but we don’t question them because we are used to believing her and never think of this but believe me many times a man has to get rid of certain women as I’m sure you know, your probably reading this now thinking of some woman who was keeping up fuckry who you had to get rid of.

Now when you consider all of that if a next man (third party) who is only hearing HER side of the story then continues to blame the man she was with for her situation by saying she got with the wrong man (who thugblamers will now say is a THUG) we then give her an avenue to not hold herself accountable for her OWN irresponsibility and that does not mean the responsibility to choose the right man because now she is like "well its the mans fault then because he was a thug it dont matter im a pregnant girl at 17 and didn't use protection and was not ready its all the thugs fault". The responsibility to not have kids out of wedlock or not in a stable relationship is lost with many people today and this is why women don’t hold themselves accountable because we blame other men when they tell us their story.

An interesting point i will add is that many men that are called thugs are NOT thugs in fact many normal working men with jobs are being slated by their children’s mother but that is because she is tasting sour grapes because he don’t want to be with her no more for whatever reason that may be, she then gives him hell and tells the whole world he aint shit and we believe it with no questions asked.

Some women take their children away from their fathers (as I can tell you from experience of friends I’m close to) and it wasn’t because they were thugs it was because she didn’t get her own way and these men were not thugs but because we give a man the "bad" thug title its easy to just simply believe the woman and think what she done is necessary making her the victim.

I’m passionate about this because even I have been deemed as a thug by some people and I don’t wear saggy jeans or anything like that (and saggy jeans dont mean someone is a thug it just means someone is stupid and cant wear their clothes properly and follows trends)

If you have been racially profiled by the police because you are black you will understand this because we have that over here in the U.K "stop and search" they have increased stop and search within the black community because they believe we commit most of the crime which is again another result of thug blaming as they believe all black men are like this (they dont differenciate between good black men and thugs they see black men and that’s it)

The impact of thugblaming has caused many men to want to distinguish themselves from thugs which is fine no one is saying you should be friends with them or anything like that BUT what is happening is the same men "good black men" as they call themselves are not realising that these women are capable of being trifling and still cant understand that even when THEY get with some of these women these women are keeping up fuckry (fuckry that even the thug suffers from) and then that’s when some men understand but by then its too late.

A woman just simply needs to get pregnant and she will get the support she needs from the government meaning the type of man she chooses dont even matter she just needs a dick and that’s it.

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Some men thugblame for various reasons a pussy beggar MAY thugblame but his reasons are mixed as he just wants pussy BUT a man who aint a pussy beggar can still thug blame and Ill say outright a thugblamer isn’t always a pussy beggar but he IS a a thugblamer and that has a ripple effect on all black men all it takes is for an un clued up racist to get the wrong part of a conversation or see two boys with new era hats on the bus and we suffer his misjudgement, whether its a man that don’t give us a job because he thinks we are a thug or a man that don’t want to give your car a jump start because you apparently look like a thug the point is black men suffer because of thug blaming.

men that call themselves "good black men" should simply stop doing it and just BE good men there is no sense in saying with your own words that you are one because it just seems suspect its as suspect as a man that says he a thug cos they are usually lying and independent black women (who are usually exaggerating or lying) there are single mothers who call themselves independent lol

I dont call myself a good black man because I don’t wanna act like I’m better than anyone else ill let my friends be the judge of what type of man i am but ultimately I try to be noble but I do that for my own reasons not because women say they want me to be that way. I NEVER follow what women say they want a woman could come here and tell you she don’t like a particular man (just to get the approval of YOU) but later on that night she is fucking the same man but she wont tell you that. I’ve had women talk shit about ME to people and later on I hit them draws so go figure. This is where the "good black man" goes wrong because he is following a female preference which the woman herself does not even follow. Women tell you what they want to you believe and not what they actually respond to when it comes to men. A girl you just met off myspace can tell you she wants you to take her to a restaurant and then drop her home when really she wanted you to grab her hair lift up her legs and completely smash her vagina walls in the back of your Ford Focus but she cant exactly say that to you out right can she? lol

I hope I have explained this well enough for you to understand you may or may not agree but I don’t endorse thugblaming and I cant allow my platform to be corrupted by men that refuse to see this as it just makes my voice pointless if men around me don’t get this. I have a son and he WILL suffer the same way due to this thugblaming nonsense all it takes is for him to wear air force 1 sneakers and a cap and its game over.

So to conclude all of this a thugblamer is not necessarily always a pussy beggar but he is still harmful to the image of black men.

Also saggy jeans is one of the most stupidest trends i have seen in my whole life but again its a diversion by all means attack it just like I attack women with fucked up feet who wear sandals but don’t assume they are all thugs they are likely to be WANNA BE THUGS