Ive started making videos on you tube lately and the main reason I did it was since i started listening to a guy called thugtician I strongly agree with pretty much EVERY thing he says and I've intuitively had the exact same attitude as him for a very long time even before I came across his you tube profile but never have I ever came across anyone as articulate as him that has expressed themselves and got to the source of the problems he addresses.
Anyway since my own channel has taken off many people have caught on to what im saying and made the crazy assumption I am infact his brother which s hilarious I am not sure if I should be hurt that people think I am not being me for who I am or if I should be honoured but then that would seem like I am too much of a crazy follower on borderline stalking lol. But no the way I see it he clearly has many followers and I seem to have inherited my own but to be fair I'm not particularly bothered who says what first or being a pioneer I am much more concerned with people taking the topics we talk about more seriously, however its not the case when I look into it deeply.
I say this because my first video was about men that have children but still have sexual relationships with the mother of their children. I made my feelings clear on that topic and I believe its unproductive and many people do this not realising its having a bad impact on both the mother and father and the child. The response was luke warm but to be honest that was just something I wanted to get out there I didnt really care about responses.
The real hype started when I made a video exposing some guys on you tube complaining about women choosing waste men. I basically put it to them that they were just using their way of venting about wastemen to get laid and I got very annoyed when they infact threatened to start dating non black women if black women dont choose them. I found such an attitude pathetic so I made a video saying just that and believe me the response was well received.
I call these men pussy beggars but I cant take the credit for this term as thugtician actually made up that definition but I have been using it a lot on facebook and just in conversations in general so I can label such men. The sad truth is that so many men are like this I have lost count of the amount of men that cant get women and therefore have a hissy fit blaming women for who they choose and now they are trying to get all intellectual by talking about how it ruins the black community and other cheesy and corny bullshit which is stuff they are just making up to express how pissed off they are that they cant get laid.
anyway since exposing pussy beggars and using that as my main gateway to gaining a few you tube subscribers I have left the topic alone and decided to address more key issues that are relevant to black men and the latest contribution to this cause was my findings on paternity testing and I think that such a topic is VERY important to all men but I hardly got any views for it. Now I dont want you to think I feel hurt by this because I am not doing this for attention I am doing it to help other black men as I really do think black males are a target all over the world by other men and even our own black women sometimes but when I realised how little people cared about that subject matter it then dawned on me................
MOST MEN ONLY CARE ABOUT PUSSY
This is something I found extremely dissapointing considering I hear so many men complaining about women treating them so bad in regards to seeing their child and debating if the child is theirs yet no one really seems to have picked up on the information that I have provided them with.
maybe black males really are truly doomed.
here is the video I made on my findings regarding paternity testing which got very little attention.
Thursday 17 September 2009
getting laid
LMFAO this is some funny shit that all men should read add ya feedback afterwards.
I got sent this some years ago and I thought some would find it interesting.
A straight talking post that was controversially posted across half of usenet by a forum member in the mens discussion room which is certainly not for the faint hearted.
I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons. I believed in Romance and "true love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser insticncts) this is mostly no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.
I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well (by their own standards that they set for themselves).
I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well adjusted good looking (8 + on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well adjusted as women can be as most women have issues). But that's not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach). Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to them right there and fuck them in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL fuck her the next day.
Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she is single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I fuck her because now it's "my fault" (girls tend to make lots of excuses for their actions when it comes to cheating) Sometimes she hides it from me until AFTER I've fucked her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her cell phone rings and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is juts not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, PERIOD. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling , to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, episodes of csi and stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc as well as asking you about your own star sign like that actually means a damn thing about THEM.
I must be really good looking. right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7 on the looks scale. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face rejections a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then, then pretty often, Then downright consistently! I'm in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have a license to be rude bitches in social situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behaviour now). But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until after I fucked them.
Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. My grandparents are proof of this as my grand father has about 20 kids 15 of which are from him and my grand mother and the other 5 with another women and a lot of his children from both women are around the same age if you do the math. So MEN have been doing this for GENERATIONS so its almost like an act of evolutional karma and most men that think their girl wont cheat are the ones doing it themselves, thats just how it is so I'm not a hater of women. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I HATE knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate a dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents... but I could *never* vote for a woman president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.
Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women? NOOOOO..... because most men hardly get laid, or if they do it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! its evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions which is why even some cowardly men that beat their women have the nack of keeping their woman even if they treat them bad). Women want the top man... so the top man fucks lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! heh.
You might say, "BUT... but.... I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" or "I'm a nice woman" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with the word sexual attraction!
I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of pounds on these bitches out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!)
* Don't be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.)
* Don't get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It's ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down...just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.
* Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like dancing - women hate a man who can't lead.
* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them - like sex. (And they're right.) It's important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don't believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second do this enough and cut the conversation short and you will see how THEY want to get back in contact with you to finish what you started.
* DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.
* Don't ignore her friends. A woman values her friend's opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)
* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you...playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that "I can't believe you just said that" look, do NOT back down, do not say "Oh I'm just kidding" or anything like that.
* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That's right...women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It's crazy but that's how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.
* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's f*cked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect as women LOVE to mould men to what they want just like they love to shop in ikea to kit out their flat or even YOUR FLAT.
* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Be careful what you ask mind you make sure the questions are in accordance to who she is and just roll with it and actually make it sound like you are INTERESTED in what she does and wants to do. Women don't like to feel like you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.
* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.
* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault." Make it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.
* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not... because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)... because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically 'impart' to the chick!
* One more thing...many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star the standards of your women will go up and you will have women you never thought you would get and you will see women you never thought would be so grimey GET REAL GRIMEY. Sadly though it never stops once you go down this road it will continue and more and more and more women will just seem to come at you to the point that one woman is never enough. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to f*ck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to f*ck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to.
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their sh*t. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will do their very best to keep him in whatever way possible ie kids move in together etc etc basically they will try and make it hard to just walk away from. The funny side to all this is that they will cheat on this poor beta male with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to f*ck some old chick in her 30's? That's what beta males are for! Heh)
Hey, don't blame me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do
I got sent this some years ago and I thought some would find it interesting.
A straight talking post that was controversially posted across half of usenet by a forum member in the mens discussion room which is certainly not for the faint hearted.
I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons. I believed in Romance and "true love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser insticncts) this is mostly no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.
I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well (by their own standards that they set for themselves).
I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well adjusted good looking (8 + on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well adjusted as women can be as most women have issues). But that's not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach). Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to them right there and fuck them in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL fuck her the next day.
Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she is single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I fuck her because now it's "my fault" (girls tend to make lots of excuses for their actions when it comes to cheating) Sometimes she hides it from me until AFTER I've fucked her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her cell phone rings and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is juts not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, PERIOD. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling , to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, episodes of csi and stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc as well as asking you about your own star sign like that actually means a damn thing about THEM.
I must be really good looking. right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7 on the looks scale. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face rejections a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then, then pretty often, Then downright consistently! I'm in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have a license to be rude bitches in social situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behaviour now). But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until after I fucked them.
Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. My grandparents are proof of this as my grand father has about 20 kids 15 of which are from him and my grand mother and the other 5 with another women and a lot of his children from both women are around the same age if you do the math. So MEN have been doing this for GENERATIONS so its almost like an act of evolutional karma and most men that think their girl wont cheat are the ones doing it themselves, thats just how it is so I'm not a hater of women. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I HATE knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate a dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents... but I could *never* vote for a woman president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.
Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women? NOOOOO..... because most men hardly get laid, or if they do it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! its evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions which is why even some cowardly men that beat their women have the nack of keeping their woman even if they treat them bad). Women want the top man... so the top man fucks lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! heh.
You might say, "BUT... but.... I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" or "I'm a nice woman" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with the word sexual attraction!
I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of pounds on these bitches out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!)
* Don't be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.)
* Don't get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It's ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down...just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.
* Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like dancing - women hate a man who can't lead.
* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them - like sex. (And they're right.) It's important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don't believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second do this enough and cut the conversation short and you will see how THEY want to get back in contact with you to finish what you started.
* DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.
* Don't ignore her friends. A woman values her friend's opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)
* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you...playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that "I can't believe you just said that" look, do NOT back down, do not say "Oh I'm just kidding" or anything like that.
* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That's right...women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It's crazy but that's how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.
* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's f*cked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect as women LOVE to mould men to what they want just like they love to shop in ikea to kit out their flat or even YOUR FLAT.
* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Be careful what you ask mind you make sure the questions are in accordance to who she is and just roll with it and actually make it sound like you are INTERESTED in what she does and wants to do. Women don't like to feel like you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.
* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.
* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault." Make it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.
* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not... because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)... because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically 'impart' to the chick!
* One more thing...many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star the standards of your women will go up and you will have women you never thought you would get and you will see women you never thought would be so grimey GET REAL GRIMEY. Sadly though it never stops once you go down this road it will continue and more and more and more women will just seem to come at you to the point that one woman is never enough. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to f*ck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to f*ck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to.
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their sh*t. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will do their very best to keep him in whatever way possible ie kids move in together etc etc basically they will try and make it hard to just walk away from. The funny side to all this is that they will cheat on this poor beta male with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to f*ck some old chick in her 30's? That's what beta males are for! Heh)
Hey, don't blame me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do
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