I never really understood the power of a man when he is fixated on his own issues and his own goals until now but I must say the feeling is great, since making you tube video's I have been able to really understand the importance of identifying male issue's by doing so in an environment where men are not distracted by the hidden agenda of others who are not as concerned.
The sad truth is many people seem to think that this is for entertainment but people like myself know this is not the case.
The amount of private emails I get from individuals on some things scare me at times not because they are contacting me specifically but because it really shows you how helpless some men feel and I think that this is because many men don't know the importance of addressing mens issues until it is too late.
It only really becomes a serious issue for many men when they have been mistreated and felt the harsh reality of gender politics and got the short end of the stick in some form of dispute with a female when third parties like the law or the work place are involved. Ironically its these very same men who are truly passionate after the fact but in some cases address matters from an emotional perspective which sometimes can compromise their thought process.
I actually find this whole subject extremely interesting and have such a passion for it now its second nature for me to be an MRA and I feel if much more men did this we would have a much better understanding of ourselves and so would the women that we complain about. You see when you actually listen to what women say about men I'm sure you have heard some ridiculous conclusions that they have come up with to explain our attitudes from their perspective but they are simply functioning on guess work. However for this kind of thinking I don't blame women because they are simply coming up with the best idea they can conjure up and what else are they supposed to do when MEN don't SPEAK UP ON THEIR ISSUES?
Of course women are going to make up their own theories and the less men that challenge them on these views the more these women will become entrenched in believing that they are right about everything they think about men and other deluded opinions and the few men that do speak out (like me) are wrong as far as they are concerned.
This is the problem with men being silent, not showing their feelings, views, and opinions. We do this everyday, that time when you heard your aunt saying "all men are cheaters" and you just sat there and didn't break down her argument, or that time that you heard your girlfriends best friend say "men are scared of commitment" and you was standing right there and refused to open your mouth with some facts because you thought your girlfriend and her would gang up on you, that time you heard some baby mother talking loudly to strangers about her baby father and you just sat and laughed with her and co-signed her.
ALL OF THAT IS WHY WOMEN THINK HOW THEY DO AND THEY DON'T THINK THEY ARE WRONG
They are not being challenged and the consequence of this has got so severe that we now have what we call a gender war between the sexes and now both sexes use mostly generalizations to describe each other and their conduct. This is the result of being silent guys and its hurting us and its hurting women and it is CRIPPLING our children.
This is the equivalent of a woman leading a man on saying that he is such a nice guy but not actually telling him that she does not find him attractive and his breath stinks. He will continue on thinking everything is cool but when he makes a move and she rejects him he will be crushed but that's because he had no clue about how she really felt. This is what is happening to women.
All you men that didn't tell your little sisters to stop dressing like hookers on facebook, all you men that only wanted to fuck the girl but told her she is your girlfriend, all you men that gas up chicks about dressing like sluts just so you could get your dick wet........ all of this has lead to the females delusion of facts when it comes to men. But that's on a very basic level........
Men should ALWAYS be speaking his mind so women know how we feel, misleading women for the sake of sparing her feelings or getting your own dick wet or not telling your sister that she was acting like a SKANK at last weeks house party only makes women as intolerable and as poorly comprehensively retarded as they are today on men and their issues.
Women didn't start dressing like hookers showing tits just off the top of their head lads, some bright pussy begging moron made her think this is classy and we still do this today.
Women also only think and believe the harsh generalizations of men today because we allowed them to without pulling them up.
How many times have you pinched a girls bum? and how many times have certain women told you to fuck off for doing it enough for you to know that you shouldn't do that unless you KNOW her?
EXACTLY
speak your mind lads
speak your mind
the silence is only gonna fuck us up later.
One last thing, don't be discouraged by a female response to such an attitude because she is likely having a serious issue of being knocked off the throne of her delusional "you go girl" kingdom where she is the queen of her own fuck ups.
Don't waste your time force feeding her just tell her when need be and ALWAYS respond with the adequate response if you hear misandry from women.
If you think this is wrong think about this, when a man makes sweeping statements about women just look how women mobilize together and take you out swiftly, they do this because they have had time to trade ideas on their own beliefs which is why they can gang up on most men and make him look very stupid.
change this guys
Wednesday 24 February 2010
Monday 22 February 2010
MALE INTUITION
Now the other day I got a wake up call about men defining their own manhood
I was on my friend’s facebook page and his status read
“Watching Wrestling with my son and he just asked me why women are wrestling and not standing outside the ring watching their men wrestle in the ring. All I could do was smile and tell him how proud I am of him.”
Now this is what I call top class clear thinking in young black youth because despite all the misandry, despite all of the women trying to mould their sons into weak women worshipping men who are scared to speak their mind on their own issues, despite all the other men that think pussy begging and kissing the arse of women is a must to get laid and despite the fact that we can hardly ever speak our mind without some woman poking her nose into big mans business this 6 year old boy still had the mind to say what he does not like in women and didn’t care about the response because he was around men that don’t stifle the notion of free thinking.
This kind of clear thinking in young men should be encouraged and rewarded because its a clear indication that when a man is free to think for himself in a healthy environment consistent with other clear thinking men he can dismiss the bullshit that women, manginas, thugblamers, feminists, and other man hating factions around us try to inject in our minds on a daily basis.
I then immediately phoned up my friend and told him to put his son on the phone and I told him that I’m gonna take him to west end next week and buy him any game he wants for his Nintendo Wii and on the way there I am going to explain exactly why I am doing this for him.
You see this boy has proven himself to be even more manly than most males who are 3 times his age and this kind of thinking in the youth is precious. What was funny was the other responses my friend got on facebook from women about this, many said the response was sexist and that it indicates woman hating and the other usual responses women give when their back is against the wall avoiding the finger of a man that knows what he is talking about.
Women don’t like being told about themselves especially when they have no response that can challenge what has been said with well rounded argument that doesn’t make them look any worse than they already do.
The usual response from a woman would be that if a man can do it so can she and you know what?
I don’t care what women do so she is right she can do whatever a man wants if you wanna go fuck up your life that’s your business but we don’t have to like it and we don’t have to stay silent about it either just so you feel comfortable with your conduct. Too many women think that because they couldn’t wouldn’t or wasn’t able to do it in the past they should be able to do it now but I wonder why I have never seen a woman change a tyre on her car without calling for road side assistance then?
Anyway
I’m quite sure women would take words of support from men with open arms, well you cant have it both ways because not all men kiss arse.
My friends son was right he doesn’t find it lady like for women to be in the ring making complete fools of themselves fighting and degrading what little respect we have of them already for other foolish female fuckry. He simple does not like it and I agree with him.
Even when I see people discussing relationships between each other there is sure to be some over the hill skank that has fucked more men that the average looking man has fucked women telling us that she shouldn’t be judged because men do it all the time.
We can judge who the hell we want tramp
We can also take great pride in rejecting your ass too and tease you about it in person and in rap songs and righteously exile you from our circle of people we respect just like you do to deadbeat dads.
Anyway a woman that feels she needs to compete her number of sexual partners and her various sexual acts in her life against the number of a mans sexual partners and his acts is simply a skank hoe and should be treated as that.
No man should feel guilty about bustin a nut, putting on his clothes and then leaving the hoe in bed after sex while he goes about his business.
WE DONT OWE HOES SHIT.
Now that felt good
You see men have been yearning to get their point across and put it out to the mainstream on these issues for years but you aint gonna hear this kind of opinion on TV or any other form of powerful media unless you listen to underground rap where you can say what the hell you want.
All your gonna hear on mainstream media is woman worshipping hogwash with the purpose of widening the audience of female viewers who indeed spend more money than men and pay more attention to advertisements which promote the bullshit they buy.
Also men don’t let no woman try and mind fuck you by telling you that you don’t respect yourself because you fucked a hoe (which really means fucking a woman like the one preaching and leaving her on her worthless arse)
These are the stupid paraphrases women use to try and even the playing field in debates because it’s their way of trying to get you to prove yourself to them. They cant convince you that they aint fucked double digits of men in one month because it so easy for us to know this in today’s world so now they are trying to get you to prove yourself to them.
Don’t even entertain it the minute a woman starts querying your sexual past take the matter even further out of her comfort zone and tell her if she cant come to the clinic with you in confidence of knowing she aint got no disease that will kill you tell her to shut the fuck up.
You see a great deal of women have all the talk when it comes to men and their sexual conduct so much so that we have women that think men cheat more than women even though there is no significant data that can prove this and it’s bullshit anyway because cheating isn’t a male act its something females do too and for the exact same reason which is to satisfy lust there is no way of saying who does it more but the common belief is that men do it more.
But let me ask you, if you believe this where did you get this idea from? How do you know this?
All of this is why I tend to silence and or ignore all women that try and communicate with me on men’s issue’s unless they are
· Offering a solution to our problems
· Offering support
· Offering a female perspective which doesn’t mean her advertising herself or her mother as the exception to the rule with a well rounded opinion stating all of the facts
If you’re a woman and you aint doing that I don’t need to hear shit from you and you should stick to being a spectator until you have grasped what Heavenlytruth1 is about.
When men get together and start thinking objectively a lot of solutions can be made about our issues and we can then exchange ideas and come to an understanding of how to deal with it but when you add a group of females to the discussion about men’s issue’s all the men end up spending half of the conversation backtracking and retracting statements so that we can acknowledge that the women in the same room as us are soooooo different from the women we are speaking about.
*rolls eyes*
Anyway in the mean time its important that all men discuss our issues in a civilised manor and don’t allow yourself to get sidetracked by female’s who want to just debate for the sake of debating.
Wednesday 17 February 2010
LET ME TELL YOU ALL ABOUT ME
I love being a black man and when I look around me and then look at YOU I love myself even more. But then when I look at YOU again and all the women that YOU whine at and realise how much these women don’t like YOU I get even more arrogant and love myself even more again, BUT then when I see how much effort YOU have put in to being what YOU think women want and they still don’t pick you I feel sorry for YOU for being misled lead by what you THINK women want because you didn’t allow yourself to love YOU for YOU rather than for what YOU think a woman wants but I find it funny at the same time and then I love myself more AGAIN.
When I finally realised all of this I then realised why so many women cant help but to love ME because unlike YOU I don’t beg, plead, whine and insult women because they didn’t pick ME because they always do.
Quite clearly for some reason your education hasn't allowed YOU to love YOU for just being YOU but I knew all of this way before any studying and that adds to why I am A BLACK MAN THAT LOVES BEING BLACK MAN.
So now you know about ME let me ask you,
WHO ARE YOU?
Wednesday 3 February 2010
THUGBLAMING EXPLAINED
OKAY
I'm gonna explain this as best i can without maybe coming across insulting as other people have when they speak about thugblaming and pussybegging
Thugblamers are people that blame thugs at pretty much every turn but one of the key ways they do this is the way they speak with women. For example a woman could be in a certain situation like being single with kids but the reason she is in that situation is because she got pregnant during a time when she was not married or at the very least living with her partner in a stable relationship basically meaning she was NOT READY FOR CHILDREN, many women today get pregnant in very casual sex hook up arrangements (booty calls /linkage) which is why many women probably don’t know who the real fathers are cos the do this with more than one man usually (but they wont tell you that women these days still wanna lie and say they only got 3 boyfriends but STD rates tell you that this is bullshit)
Now considering this and the fact that relationships break down for all manor of reasons right there is one reason why we have single parents all over the place, but why do women do this?
Well women get a lot of support when they bare children so now they don’t see this as a real consequence and the fact that so many other women do it or in their own words "white women do it too" they no longer fear being single parents its almost like its collateral damage cos they still land on their feet with things like welfare, child benefits, housing etc. The money they get is not a lot but it’s enough to make them not care as much as they should which is why women have such a casual attitude to parenting in comparison to the attitude they should have.
NOW
Ill also point out that women ALWAYS tell us her side of the story when a relationship breaks down and they will usually do it by pointing out all the mans faults and tell you that she had to get rid of him. This is the first way I smell bullshit from women because many women get dumped by men but how often do women tell you that they have been dumped? THEY DONT but we don’t question them because we are used to believing her and never think of this but believe me many times a man has to get rid of certain women as I’m sure you know, your probably reading this now thinking of some woman who was keeping up fuckry who you had to get rid of.
Now when you consider all of that if a next man (third party) who is only hearing HER side of the story then continues to blame the man she was with for her situation by saying she got with the wrong man (who thugblamers will now say is a THUG) we then give her an avenue to not hold herself accountable for her OWN irresponsibility and that does not mean the responsibility to choose the right man because now she is like "well its the mans fault then because he was a thug it dont matter im a pregnant girl at 17 and didn't use protection and was not ready its all the thugs fault". The responsibility to not have kids out of wedlock or not in a stable relationship is lost with many people today and this is why women don’t hold themselves accountable because we blame other men when they tell us their story.
An interesting point i will add is that many men that are called thugs are NOT thugs in fact many normal working men with jobs are being slated by their children’s mother but that is because she is tasting sour grapes because he don’t want to be with her no more for whatever reason that may be, she then gives him hell and tells the whole world he aint shit and we believe it with no questions asked.
Some women take their children away from their fathers (as I can tell you from experience of friends I’m close to) and it wasn’t because they were thugs it was because she didn’t get her own way and these men were not thugs but because we give a man the "bad" thug title its easy to just simply believe the woman and think what she done is necessary making her the victim.
I’m passionate about this because even I have been deemed as a thug by some people and I don’t wear saggy jeans or anything like that (and saggy jeans dont mean someone is a thug it just means someone is stupid and cant wear their clothes properly and follows trends)
If you have been racially profiled by the police because you are black you will understand this because we have that over here in the U.K "stop and search" they have increased stop and search within the black community because they believe we commit most of the crime which is again another result of thug blaming as they believe all black men are like this (they dont differenciate between good black men and thugs they see black men and that’s it)
The impact of thugblaming has caused many men to want to distinguish themselves from thugs which is fine no one is saying you should be friends with them or anything like that BUT what is happening is the same men "good black men" as they call themselves are not realising that these women are capable of being trifling and still cant understand that even when THEY get with some of these women these women are keeping up fuckry (fuckry that even the thug suffers from) and then that’s when some men understand but by then its too late.
A woman just simply needs to get pregnant and she will get the support she needs from the government meaning the type of man she chooses dont even matter she just needs a dick and that’s it.
NOW
Some men thugblame for various reasons a pussy beggar MAY thugblame but his reasons are mixed as he just wants pussy BUT a man who aint a pussy beggar can still thug blame and Ill say outright a thugblamer isn’t always a pussy beggar but he IS a a thugblamer and that has a ripple effect on all black men all it takes is for an un clued up racist to get the wrong part of a conversation or see two boys with new era hats on the bus and we suffer his misjudgement, whether its a man that don’t give us a job because he thinks we are a thug or a man that don’t want to give your car a jump start because you apparently look like a thug the point is black men suffer because of thug blaming.
men that call themselves "good black men" should simply stop doing it and just BE good men there is no sense in saying with your own words that you are one because it just seems suspect its as suspect as a man that says he a thug cos they are usually lying and independent black women (who are usually exaggerating or lying) there are single mothers who call themselves independent lol
I dont call myself a good black man because I don’t wanna act like I’m better than anyone else ill let my friends be the judge of what type of man i am but ultimately I try to be noble but I do that for my own reasons not because women say they want me to be that way. I NEVER follow what women say they want a woman could come here and tell you she don’t like a particular man (just to get the approval of YOU) but later on that night she is fucking the same man but she wont tell you that. I’ve had women talk shit about ME to people and later on I hit them draws so go figure. This is where the "good black man" goes wrong because he is following a female preference which the woman herself does not even follow. Women tell you what they want to you believe and not what they actually respond to when it comes to men. A girl you just met off myspace can tell you she wants you to take her to a restaurant and then drop her home when really she wanted you to grab her hair lift up her legs and completely smash her vagina walls in the back of your Ford Focus but she cant exactly say that to you out right can she? lol
I hope I have explained this well enough for you to understand you may or may not agree but I don’t endorse thugblaming and I cant allow my platform to be corrupted by men that refuse to see this as it just makes my voice pointless if men around me don’t get this. I have a son and he WILL suffer the same way due to this thugblaming nonsense all it takes is for him to wear air force 1 sneakers and a cap and its game over.
So to conclude all of this a thugblamer is not necessarily always a pussy beggar but he is still harmful to the image of black men.
Also saggy jeans is one of the most stupidest trends i have seen in my whole life but again its a diversion by all means attack it just like I attack women with fucked up feet who wear sandals but don’t assume they are all thugs they are likely to be WANNA BE THUGS
I'm gonna explain this as best i can without maybe coming across insulting as other people have when they speak about thugblaming and pussybegging
Thugblamers are people that blame thugs at pretty much every turn but one of the key ways they do this is the way they speak with women. For example a woman could be in a certain situation like being single with kids but the reason she is in that situation is because she got pregnant during a time when she was not married or at the very least living with her partner in a stable relationship basically meaning she was NOT READY FOR CHILDREN, many women today get pregnant in very casual sex hook up arrangements (booty calls /linkage) which is why many women probably don’t know who the real fathers are cos the do this with more than one man usually (but they wont tell you that women these days still wanna lie and say they only got 3 boyfriends but STD rates tell you that this is bullshit)
Now considering this and the fact that relationships break down for all manor of reasons right there is one reason why we have single parents all over the place, but why do women do this?
Well women get a lot of support when they bare children so now they don’t see this as a real consequence and the fact that so many other women do it or in their own words "white women do it too" they no longer fear being single parents its almost like its collateral damage cos they still land on their feet with things like welfare, child benefits, housing etc. The money they get is not a lot but it’s enough to make them not care as much as they should which is why women have such a casual attitude to parenting in comparison to the attitude they should have.
NOW
Ill also point out that women ALWAYS tell us her side of the story when a relationship breaks down and they will usually do it by pointing out all the mans faults and tell you that she had to get rid of him. This is the first way I smell bullshit from women because many women get dumped by men but how often do women tell you that they have been dumped? THEY DONT but we don’t question them because we are used to believing her and never think of this but believe me many times a man has to get rid of certain women as I’m sure you know, your probably reading this now thinking of some woman who was keeping up fuckry who you had to get rid of.
Now when you consider all of that if a next man (third party) who is only hearing HER side of the story then continues to blame the man she was with for her situation by saying she got with the wrong man (who thugblamers will now say is a THUG) we then give her an avenue to not hold herself accountable for her OWN irresponsibility and that does not mean the responsibility to choose the right man because now she is like "well its the mans fault then because he was a thug it dont matter im a pregnant girl at 17 and didn't use protection and was not ready its all the thugs fault". The responsibility to not have kids out of wedlock or not in a stable relationship is lost with many people today and this is why women don’t hold themselves accountable because we blame other men when they tell us their story.
An interesting point i will add is that many men that are called thugs are NOT thugs in fact many normal working men with jobs are being slated by their children’s mother but that is because she is tasting sour grapes because he don’t want to be with her no more for whatever reason that may be, she then gives him hell and tells the whole world he aint shit and we believe it with no questions asked.
Some women take their children away from their fathers (as I can tell you from experience of friends I’m close to) and it wasn’t because they were thugs it was because she didn’t get her own way and these men were not thugs but because we give a man the "bad" thug title its easy to just simply believe the woman and think what she done is necessary making her the victim.
I’m passionate about this because even I have been deemed as a thug by some people and I don’t wear saggy jeans or anything like that (and saggy jeans dont mean someone is a thug it just means someone is stupid and cant wear their clothes properly and follows trends)
If you have been racially profiled by the police because you are black you will understand this because we have that over here in the U.K "stop and search" they have increased stop and search within the black community because they believe we commit most of the crime which is again another result of thug blaming as they believe all black men are like this (they dont differenciate between good black men and thugs they see black men and that’s it)
The impact of thugblaming has caused many men to want to distinguish themselves from thugs which is fine no one is saying you should be friends with them or anything like that BUT what is happening is the same men "good black men" as they call themselves are not realising that these women are capable of being trifling and still cant understand that even when THEY get with some of these women these women are keeping up fuckry (fuckry that even the thug suffers from) and then that’s when some men understand but by then its too late.
A woman just simply needs to get pregnant and she will get the support she needs from the government meaning the type of man she chooses dont even matter she just needs a dick and that’s it.
NOW
Some men thugblame for various reasons a pussy beggar MAY thugblame but his reasons are mixed as he just wants pussy BUT a man who aint a pussy beggar can still thug blame and Ill say outright a thugblamer isn’t always a pussy beggar but he IS a a thugblamer and that has a ripple effect on all black men all it takes is for an un clued up racist to get the wrong part of a conversation or see two boys with new era hats on the bus and we suffer his misjudgement, whether its a man that don’t give us a job because he thinks we are a thug or a man that don’t want to give your car a jump start because you apparently look like a thug the point is black men suffer because of thug blaming.
men that call themselves "good black men" should simply stop doing it and just BE good men there is no sense in saying with your own words that you are one because it just seems suspect its as suspect as a man that says he a thug cos they are usually lying and independent black women (who are usually exaggerating or lying) there are single mothers who call themselves independent lol
I dont call myself a good black man because I don’t wanna act like I’m better than anyone else ill let my friends be the judge of what type of man i am but ultimately I try to be noble but I do that for my own reasons not because women say they want me to be that way. I NEVER follow what women say they want a woman could come here and tell you she don’t like a particular man (just to get the approval of YOU) but later on that night she is fucking the same man but she wont tell you that. I’ve had women talk shit about ME to people and later on I hit them draws so go figure. This is where the "good black man" goes wrong because he is following a female preference which the woman herself does not even follow. Women tell you what they want to you believe and not what they actually respond to when it comes to men. A girl you just met off myspace can tell you she wants you to take her to a restaurant and then drop her home when really she wanted you to grab her hair lift up her legs and completely smash her vagina walls in the back of your Ford Focus but she cant exactly say that to you out right can she? lol
I hope I have explained this well enough for you to understand you may or may not agree but I don’t endorse thugblaming and I cant allow my platform to be corrupted by men that refuse to see this as it just makes my voice pointless if men around me don’t get this. I have a son and he WILL suffer the same way due to this thugblaming nonsense all it takes is for him to wear air force 1 sneakers and a cap and its game over.
So to conclude all of this a thugblamer is not necessarily always a pussy beggar but he is still harmful to the image of black men.
Also saggy jeans is one of the most stupidest trends i have seen in my whole life but again its a diversion by all means attack it just like I attack women with fucked up feet who wear sandals but don’t assume they are all thugs they are likely to be WANNA BE THUGS
Saturday 24 October 2009
DELUSIONAL FEMALE RESISTANCE FROM FACTS
My rant today is one that has been on my mind for a while I have been neglecting my blog page as its easier to make a video and just post it on you tube and daily motion considering I have had and still do have many other things to do.
Anyway my first pissed off rant will be of the following statements I get for making videos
"this man has issues with women"
for god sake why do women manginas and pussy beggars still use this ridiculous formula as a response to a video I make that clearly identifies them and their traits? firstly one does not need to have issues with anyone to point out what their faults are its pretty basic stuff that I say and its also common knowledge but only a handful of people have managed to address it effectively and offer real obtainable solutions. The reason these people say these things as a response is clearly because it threatens their own personal agenda's and or they feel personally offended by someone that calls them out. I could go on for ages to explain why I do or don't have issues with women but then that would involve me explaining myself to people I already class as degenerates.
"this guy disguises his voice so I cant take him seriously"
good god this is the WORST pathetic excuse for failure bad choices and bad standards I have seen yet, so let me get this straight because I decide to not get myself personally involved in the cyber world with as much passion that these people do I am not to be taken seriously? I find this reaction a very resilient one but at the same time a very stubborn one that indicates these people are picking at any straw they can grasp to avoid being told the truth. The sound of my voice has nothing to do with it and its also clear I have taken away any kind of target they can use to derail my train of thought. I am almost certain that some bright spark is reading this and as a result is now saying that I am an angry man yadda yadda yadda because im making this blog. Again with the fallacies and self indulging stories to appease peoples feelings of me thats not true either.
"this guy doesn't address the womans perspective enough"
Right here is a classic example of black womens sense of victim hood why is it that when a black man is held accountable your all the proud to do it and watch him burn and he takes it solely on his shoulders but when a black woman is held to task all of a sudden she cant take the criticism alone without also involving her male counterpart and in other words not take FULL accountability? This is the bitch made mentality that most and yes i did say MOST black women have which keeps them permanently retarded, if a woman cheats its supposed to also be the mans fault because he also cheats, if a woman has an std its only because a man gave it to her even though she knows to protect herself, if a woman cant find a man its because men are intimidated by her or they are no good............................
The list of syndicated black female bitching continues and is perpetuated by mainstream media and a feminised society of men raised by single mothers that also hate their own fathers for all number of reasons.
Ironically the same men I am referring to are the same men that cant find a good woman apparently and the reason for that is because the very women they defend do NOT respect them because they are pre feminised and are basically push overs. Women like to mould, seduce and convince men they are the exception and diamond in the dirt compared to other women which is why I come across so many women telling me their hard luck story about why they are different to me. Whats sad about that cry for help is that I have already deemed such women are worthless in my own assessment so their attempts to convince me they are good women is like flogging a truly dessicated dead horse.
Anyway thats my rant for today when i got something else to express ill come back on my blog page and tell you all about it.
in the mean time check out this video which sort of summarises my thoughts in this blog.
Anyway my first pissed off rant will be of the following statements I get for making videos
"this man has issues with women"
for god sake why do women manginas and pussy beggars still use this ridiculous formula as a response to a video I make that clearly identifies them and their traits? firstly one does not need to have issues with anyone to point out what their faults are its pretty basic stuff that I say and its also common knowledge but only a handful of people have managed to address it effectively and offer real obtainable solutions. The reason these people say these things as a response is clearly because it threatens their own personal agenda's and or they feel personally offended by someone that calls them out. I could go on for ages to explain why I do or don't have issues with women but then that would involve me explaining myself to people I already class as degenerates.
"this guy disguises his voice so I cant take him seriously"
good god this is the WORST pathetic excuse for failure bad choices and bad standards I have seen yet, so let me get this straight because I decide to not get myself personally involved in the cyber world with as much passion that these people do I am not to be taken seriously? I find this reaction a very resilient one but at the same time a very stubborn one that indicates these people are picking at any straw they can grasp to avoid being told the truth. The sound of my voice has nothing to do with it and its also clear I have taken away any kind of target they can use to derail my train of thought. I am almost certain that some bright spark is reading this and as a result is now saying that I am an angry man yadda yadda yadda because im making this blog. Again with the fallacies and self indulging stories to appease peoples feelings of me thats not true either.
"this guy doesn't address the womans perspective enough"
Right here is a classic example of black womens sense of victim hood why is it that when a black man is held accountable your all the proud to do it and watch him burn and he takes it solely on his shoulders but when a black woman is held to task all of a sudden she cant take the criticism alone without also involving her male counterpart and in other words not take FULL accountability? This is the bitch made mentality that most and yes i did say MOST black women have which keeps them permanently retarded, if a woman cheats its supposed to also be the mans fault because he also cheats, if a woman has an std its only because a man gave it to her even though she knows to protect herself, if a woman cant find a man its because men are intimidated by her or they are no good............................
The list of syndicated black female bitching continues and is perpetuated by mainstream media and a feminised society of men raised by single mothers that also hate their own fathers for all number of reasons.
Ironically the same men I am referring to are the same men that cant find a good woman apparently and the reason for that is because the very women they defend do NOT respect them because they are pre feminised and are basically push overs. Women like to mould, seduce and convince men they are the exception and diamond in the dirt compared to other women which is why I come across so many women telling me their hard luck story about why they are different to me. Whats sad about that cry for help is that I have already deemed such women are worthless in my own assessment so their attempts to convince me they are good women is like flogging a truly dessicated dead horse.
Anyway thats my rant for today when i got something else to express ill come back on my blog page and tell you all about it.
in the mean time check out this video which sort of summarises my thoughts in this blog.
Thursday 17 September 2009
THE REASON I STARTED USING YOU TUBE
Ive started making videos on you tube lately and the main reason I did it was since i started listening to a guy called thugtician I strongly agree with pretty much EVERY thing he says and I've intuitively had the exact same attitude as him for a very long time even before I came across his you tube profile but never have I ever came across anyone as articulate as him that has expressed themselves and got to the source of the problems he addresses.
Anyway since my own channel has taken off many people have caught on to what im saying and made the crazy assumption I am infact his brother which s hilarious I am not sure if I should be hurt that people think I am not being me for who I am or if I should be honoured but then that would seem like I am too much of a crazy follower on borderline stalking lol. But no the way I see it he clearly has many followers and I seem to have inherited my own but to be fair I'm not particularly bothered who says what first or being a pioneer I am much more concerned with people taking the topics we talk about more seriously, however its not the case when I look into it deeply.
I say this because my first video was about men that have children but still have sexual relationships with the mother of their children. I made my feelings clear on that topic and I believe its unproductive and many people do this not realising its having a bad impact on both the mother and father and the child. The response was luke warm but to be honest that was just something I wanted to get out there I didnt really care about responses.
The real hype started when I made a video exposing some guys on you tube complaining about women choosing waste men. I basically put it to them that they were just using their way of venting about wastemen to get laid and I got very annoyed when they infact threatened to start dating non black women if black women dont choose them. I found such an attitude pathetic so I made a video saying just that and believe me the response was well received.
I call these men pussy beggars but I cant take the credit for this term as thugtician actually made up that definition but I have been using it a lot on facebook and just in conversations in general so I can label such men. The sad truth is that so many men are like this I have lost count of the amount of men that cant get women and therefore have a hissy fit blaming women for who they choose and now they are trying to get all intellectual by talking about how it ruins the black community and other cheesy and corny bullshit which is stuff they are just making up to express how pissed off they are that they cant get laid.
anyway since exposing pussy beggars and using that as my main gateway to gaining a few you tube subscribers I have left the topic alone and decided to address more key issues that are relevant to black men and the latest contribution to this cause was my findings on paternity testing and I think that such a topic is VERY important to all men but I hardly got any views for it. Now I dont want you to think I feel hurt by this because I am not doing this for attention I am doing it to help other black men as I really do think black males are a target all over the world by other men and even our own black women sometimes but when I realised how little people cared about that subject matter it then dawned on me................
MOST MEN ONLY CARE ABOUT PUSSY
This is something I found extremely dissapointing considering I hear so many men complaining about women treating them so bad in regards to seeing their child and debating if the child is theirs yet no one really seems to have picked up on the information that I have provided them with.
maybe black males really are truly doomed.
here is the video I made on my findings regarding paternity testing which got very little attention.
Anyway since my own channel has taken off many people have caught on to what im saying and made the crazy assumption I am infact his brother which s hilarious I am not sure if I should be hurt that people think I am not being me for who I am or if I should be honoured but then that would seem like I am too much of a crazy follower on borderline stalking lol. But no the way I see it he clearly has many followers and I seem to have inherited my own but to be fair I'm not particularly bothered who says what first or being a pioneer I am much more concerned with people taking the topics we talk about more seriously, however its not the case when I look into it deeply.
I say this because my first video was about men that have children but still have sexual relationships with the mother of their children. I made my feelings clear on that topic and I believe its unproductive and many people do this not realising its having a bad impact on both the mother and father and the child. The response was luke warm but to be honest that was just something I wanted to get out there I didnt really care about responses.
The real hype started when I made a video exposing some guys on you tube complaining about women choosing waste men. I basically put it to them that they were just using their way of venting about wastemen to get laid and I got very annoyed when they infact threatened to start dating non black women if black women dont choose them. I found such an attitude pathetic so I made a video saying just that and believe me the response was well received.
I call these men pussy beggars but I cant take the credit for this term as thugtician actually made up that definition but I have been using it a lot on facebook and just in conversations in general so I can label such men. The sad truth is that so many men are like this I have lost count of the amount of men that cant get women and therefore have a hissy fit blaming women for who they choose and now they are trying to get all intellectual by talking about how it ruins the black community and other cheesy and corny bullshit which is stuff they are just making up to express how pissed off they are that they cant get laid.
anyway since exposing pussy beggars and using that as my main gateway to gaining a few you tube subscribers I have left the topic alone and decided to address more key issues that are relevant to black men and the latest contribution to this cause was my findings on paternity testing and I think that such a topic is VERY important to all men but I hardly got any views for it. Now I dont want you to think I feel hurt by this because I am not doing this for attention I am doing it to help other black men as I really do think black males are a target all over the world by other men and even our own black women sometimes but when I realised how little people cared about that subject matter it then dawned on me................
MOST MEN ONLY CARE ABOUT PUSSY
This is something I found extremely dissapointing considering I hear so many men complaining about women treating them so bad in regards to seeing their child and debating if the child is theirs yet no one really seems to have picked up on the information that I have provided them with.
maybe black males really are truly doomed.
here is the video I made on my findings regarding paternity testing which got very little attention.
getting laid
LMFAO this is some funny shit that all men should read add ya feedback afterwards.
I got sent this some years ago and I thought some would find it interesting.
A straight talking post that was controversially posted across half of usenet by a forum member in the mens discussion room which is certainly not for the faint hearted.
I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons. I believed in Romance and "true love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser insticncts) this is mostly no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.
I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well (by their own standards that they set for themselves).
I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well adjusted good looking (8 + on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well adjusted as women can be as most women have issues). But that's not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach). Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to them right there and fuck them in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL fuck her the next day.
Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she is single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I fuck her because now it's "my fault" (girls tend to make lots of excuses for their actions when it comes to cheating) Sometimes she hides it from me until AFTER I've fucked her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her cell phone rings and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is juts not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, PERIOD. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling , to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, episodes of csi and stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc as well as asking you about your own star sign like that actually means a damn thing about THEM.
I must be really good looking. right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7 on the looks scale. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face rejections a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then, then pretty often, Then downright consistently! I'm in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have a license to be rude bitches in social situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behaviour now). But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until after I fucked them.
Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. My grandparents are proof of this as my grand father has about 20 kids 15 of which are from him and my grand mother and the other 5 with another women and a lot of his children from both women are around the same age if you do the math. So MEN have been doing this for GENERATIONS so its almost like an act of evolutional karma and most men that think their girl wont cheat are the ones doing it themselves, thats just how it is so I'm not a hater of women. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I HATE knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate a dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents... but I could *never* vote for a woman president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.
Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women? NOOOOO..... because most men hardly get laid, or if they do it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! its evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions which is why even some cowardly men that beat their women have the nack of keeping their woman even if they treat them bad). Women want the top man... so the top man fucks lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! heh.
You might say, "BUT... but.... I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" or "I'm a nice woman" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with the word sexual attraction!
I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of pounds on these bitches out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!)
* Don't be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.)
* Don't get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It's ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down...just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.
* Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like dancing - women hate a man who can't lead.
* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them - like sex. (And they're right.) It's important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don't believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second do this enough and cut the conversation short and you will see how THEY want to get back in contact with you to finish what you started.
* DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.
* Don't ignore her friends. A woman values her friend's opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)
* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you...playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that "I can't believe you just said that" look, do NOT back down, do not say "Oh I'm just kidding" or anything like that.
* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That's right...women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It's crazy but that's how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.
* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's f*cked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect as women LOVE to mould men to what they want just like they love to shop in ikea to kit out their flat or even YOUR FLAT.
* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Be careful what you ask mind you make sure the questions are in accordance to who she is and just roll with it and actually make it sound like you are INTERESTED in what she does and wants to do. Women don't like to feel like you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.
* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.
* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault." Make it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.
* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not... because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)... because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically 'impart' to the chick!
* One more thing...many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star the standards of your women will go up and you will have women you never thought you would get and you will see women you never thought would be so grimey GET REAL GRIMEY. Sadly though it never stops once you go down this road it will continue and more and more and more women will just seem to come at you to the point that one woman is never enough. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to f*ck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to f*ck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to.
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their sh*t. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will do their very best to keep him in whatever way possible ie kids move in together etc etc basically they will try and make it hard to just walk away from. The funny side to all this is that they will cheat on this poor beta male with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to f*ck some old chick in her 30's? That's what beta males are for! Heh)
Hey, don't blame me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do
I got sent this some years ago and I thought some would find it interesting.
A straight talking post that was controversially posted across half of usenet by a forum member in the mens discussion room which is certainly not for the faint hearted.
I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons. I believed in Romance and "true love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser insticncts) this is mostly no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.
I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well (by their own standards that they set for themselves).
I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well adjusted good looking (8 + on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well adjusted as women can be as most women have issues). But that's not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach). Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to them right there and fuck them in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL fuck her the next day.
Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she is single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I fuck her because now it's "my fault" (girls tend to make lots of excuses for their actions when it comes to cheating) Sometimes she hides it from me until AFTER I've fucked her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her cell phone rings and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is juts not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, PERIOD. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling , to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, episodes of csi and stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc as well as asking you about your own star sign like that actually means a damn thing about THEM.
I must be really good looking. right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7 on the looks scale. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face rejections a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then, then pretty often, Then downright consistently! I'm in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have a license to be rude bitches in social situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behaviour now). But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until after I fucked them.
Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. My grandparents are proof of this as my grand father has about 20 kids 15 of which are from him and my grand mother and the other 5 with another women and a lot of his children from both women are around the same age if you do the math. So MEN have been doing this for GENERATIONS so its almost like an act of evolutional karma and most men that think their girl wont cheat are the ones doing it themselves, thats just how it is so I'm not a hater of women. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I HATE knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate a dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents... but I could *never* vote for a woman president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.
Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women? NOOOOO..... because most men hardly get laid, or if they do it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! its evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions which is why even some cowardly men that beat their women have the nack of keeping their woman even if they treat them bad). Women want the top man... so the top man fucks lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! heh.
You might say, "BUT... but.... I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" or "I'm a nice woman" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with the word sexual attraction!
I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of pounds on these bitches out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!)
* Don't be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.)
* Don't get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It's ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down...just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.
* Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like dancing - women hate a man who can't lead.
* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them - like sex. (And they're right.) It's important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don't believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second do this enough and cut the conversation short and you will see how THEY want to get back in contact with you to finish what you started.
* DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.
* Don't ignore her friends. A woman values her friend's opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)
* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you...playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that "I can't believe you just said that" look, do NOT back down, do not say "Oh I'm just kidding" or anything like that.
* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That's right...women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It's crazy but that's how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.
* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's f*cked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect as women LOVE to mould men to what they want just like they love to shop in ikea to kit out their flat or even YOUR FLAT.
* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Be careful what you ask mind you make sure the questions are in accordance to who she is and just roll with it and actually make it sound like you are INTERESTED in what she does and wants to do. Women don't like to feel like you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.
* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.
* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault." Make it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.
* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not... because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)... because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically 'impart' to the chick!
* One more thing...many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star the standards of your women will go up and you will have women you never thought you would get and you will see women you never thought would be so grimey GET REAL GRIMEY. Sadly though it never stops once you go down this road it will continue and more and more and more women will just seem to come at you to the point that one woman is never enough. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to f*ck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to f*ck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to.
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their sh*t. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will do their very best to keep him in whatever way possible ie kids move in together etc etc basically they will try and make it hard to just walk away from. The funny side to all this is that they will cheat on this poor beta male with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to f*ck some old chick in her 30's? That's what beta males are for! Heh)
Hey, don't blame me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do
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